All My Favorite Things

By far, the most common question I’m asked concerns what my favorite things to do are, for both online and in-person sessions.

For obvious reasons, there are some differences in the activities that are fun for me during remote versus in-person sessions. I can chat about tying you up all I like, but it doesn’t quite encapsulate the feeling of being bound and utterly at my mercy, dose it?

Due to frequency that this question comes up, I’ve decided to compile a a list of my top 5 favorite activities for each venue.

Online or remote sessions:

1. Chastity: I’ve had a lot of success keeping boys locked up and taking full control of their sex lives this way, using any number of chastity devices. I love giving boys little assignments designed to keep them on edge and sending them teasing photos and videos. That little cock cage gets really tight, really fast…

2. Masturbation instruction.

3. Guided CBT (cork and ball torture). Yes, the sadist in me enjoys your pain even over the internet.

4. Humiliation. Who doesn’t need enjoy a good laugh and finding reasons to make fun of you losers is easy.

5. Tease and Denial: emphasis on the denial.

In-Person Sessions:

1. Pain play: I know this is a rather vague description for an activity. Lets just say, I like it all. Be it corporal discipline, CBT, hard bondage or walking all over you in the sharpest stilettos I own, it makes me grin from ear to ear.

2. Tease and Denial: again, emphasis on the denial.

3. Foot/let/ass worship.

4. Chastity: It’s even better in person. Just imagine the happy gleam in my eye and the smile on my face as the lock snaps closed.

5. Public humiliation: not something I get to do often enough, sadly. Who would like to change that?

I hope this gives you a bit of insight about who I am, and what I like to do….so that you can stop asking me every five minutes

Kisses,

Noel

Noel’s assessment of 99.9% of all men

So sad, and so true…

Kisses,

Noel

Then and Now

I recently had someone send me a photo. It took me a second to recognize the girl in the photo. She was pale, with dark hair and seemed to be a little timid, and a lot curious.

The subject in question, was me. As some of you might know, long before I ever found my “kink home” with Wicked Eden I worked as a fetish model and porn star under the name Raina Verene. I shot for a plethora of different websites – both vanilla and kinky – and had a blast doing it.

The random appearance of this photo got me thinking about then, now, and the progression in between.

When I was just beginning to explore my interests in BDSM, I first self-identified as a submissive. The majority of my relationships involved in D/s in one manner or another – some were very casual, and others were full out 24/7 dynamics. I totally embraced my role as a bottom, never thought twice about it and had some excellent (and, sometimes, not so excellent) experiences. At the time, it never occurred to me that I should ever try topping someone, or that I would ever enjoy it in any capacity.

That obviously has changed. I’ve had more than one boy tell me that they can’t imagine I ever had a submissive bone in my body (this never fails to amuse me).

While my days in service have long since passed , I’m still extraordinarily grateful and pleased with my experiences as a bottom/slave/submissive. My time in that role has given the ability to understand the psychology behind submission – what it means on different levels, and all the little details that make a scene both memorable and meaningful. It allows me the understanding and foresight to navigate my way through a bottom’s head and create an amazing catharsis for us both.

I truly believe that without these experiences, I would never have become as good a top as I am today – because, let’s face it; I’m freakishly awesome

Me, as Raina Verene, just starting my career on Kink.com’s Public disgrace

Kisses,

Noel

What Goes On Behind Closed Doors

I get a plethora of e-mails every week asking me what usually happens in a session. Time and time again, I’m at somewhat of a loss as to how to answer this impossible question. After all, the fetishes that I enjoy playing to are vast and the machinations that occur in the deep dark dungeon, are, for the most part, kept top secret.

However, since all of your are so fucking nosy and I’ve had a couple of absolutely fantastic sessions in the last few day, I thought I’d give you all a little taste:

Now, remember to say that you…

Kisses,

Noel

Noel’s I-Love-To-Tease-The-Fuck-Out-Of- You Compendium

I know you’re probably rubbing one out to my fuckolicious hot photos above, but you should know that this…

…is what I really think of you.

Kisses,

Noel

Distractions

I was going to write some cerebral, intelligent blog post. Alas, I was side tracked by the following:

You can read about this here

and this one here

and, last but not lease, check out this one here

Can any of you guess what kind of mood I’m in? Any takers? *insert evil laugh here*

Kisses,

Miss Noel

A little peak. Sort of.

Last week was jam packed with shooting for the girls of WE. As a result there are now some hot photo sets of yours truly in latex, leather, and sexy lingerie. I know you’re all dying to see. Alas, I won’t be sharing those just yet.

I will, however, share this little tid bit:

Miss Kelle, Miss Audrie and I decided to treat ourselves to dinner and drinks out post photo shoot. Obviously, we were still a little oversexed from our very busy day and no, I won’t be telling you what happened after dinner…

Enjoy!

Kisses,

Miss Noel

Chastity and Cuckolding

Many of you are aware of my growing fetish for chastity and cuckolding. Due to the recent launch of my personal website (www.missnoel.com), I’ve had a influx of e-mails from lots of submissive boys, and even a submissive girl, asking me about my interest in this topic and I thought I would take a moment to expound on the subject.

Lets start with the nitty gritty,

It really get me hot. I love the idea of all you slave boys/girls all locked up and at my disposal. That I can get pleasure anytime I want, do anything I damn well please but you are totally under my control. I get to tease, torture and torment to my hearts content – and there’s nothing you can do about it!

Of course, I also find chastity to be a useful tool. I find it utterly fascinating how a defiant and demanding boy can quickly become the most complaint and docile of slaves after I have their little clit stick securely locked away and the keys around my pretty neck. Imagine how fast you’d jump to complete any little task I gave you if you’re only shot at being able to orgasm depended upon my good will?

On a more serious note, I should add that I consider chastity to be a very intimate, very personal, form of domination – not something to be taken lightly. There are lots of details that should be taken into account and it requires a good deal of time, effort and trust, from both parties.

Kisses,

Miss Noel

Role playing Vs Playing a role

I would think it’s safe to say that over half of the session I do fall into the realm of role play. For those of you who aren’t on the up and up role playing is and I quote ” the changing of ones behavior to assume a role, either consciously to fill an adopted role or unconsciously to fulfill a social role”.

Sound complicated? It’s not. In my world, this means I get to play the part of baby sitter/naughty girl/Goddess/teacher/nurse and a plethora of other characters in order to act out a fantasy. Its an extremely common request, due mostly, in my opinion, to the escapism it provides for the players involved. For a little bit of time, you can indulge in pretense and be who and whatever your imagination decides.

For myself, personally, role-playing can either be a blast, or a complete bore. If someone were to bring me a highly scripted scenario I would be disinclined to indulge in a role play with them. You see, I don’t do things that aren’t me.

Does that mean, I won’t throw on a suit and be your evil secretary? Of course not. It just means that I’ll do Noel; mean-nasty-bitch secretary. I don’t let the role I’m playing shape me. I shape the character I’m playing to suit me, my personality, my signature.

Make sense? Good. I’m glad we had this talk.

Kisses,

Noel