Role playing Vs Playing a role

I would think it’s safe to say that over half of the session I do fall into the realm of role play. For those of you who aren’t on the up and up role playing is and I quote ” the changing of ones behavior to assume a role, either consciously to fill an adopted role or unconsciously to fulfill a social role”.

Sound complicated? It’s not. In my world, this means I get to play the part of baby sitter/naughty girl/Goddess/teacher/nurse and a plethora of other characters in order to act out a fantasy. Its an extremely common request, due mostly, in my opinion, to the escapism it provides for the players involved. For a little bit of time, you can indulge in pretense and be who and whatever your imagination decides.

For myself, personally, role-playing can either be a blast, or a complete bore. If someone were to bring me a highly scripted scenario I would be disinclined to indulge in a role play with them. You see, I don’t do things that aren’t me.

Does that mean, I won’t throw on a suit and be your evil secretary? Of course not. It just means that I’ll do Noel; mean-nasty-bitch secretary. I don’t let the role I’m playing shape me. I shape the character I’m playing to suit me, my personality, my signature.

Make sense? Good. I’m glad we had this talk.

Kisses,

Noel

Time flies…

…when you’re having fun

Well, that’s definitely a correct assessment. This past Tuesday was my birthday and it certainly crept up on me this year.

I celebrated in true “kinky” fashion by going to lunch with one of my submissive toys, who later took my birthday spankings by candle light, gave a second round of birthday spanking to another boy, after a lovely session full of electrical torture (one of my very favorite things in life), was strung up in all sorts of suspensions and hogties and ended the day surrounded by all of my favorite people from Wicked Eden for a drinks and dinner.

I received some absolutely wonderful gifts this year (that I’ll be showing off at one time or another) and would like to thank everyone for their well wishes; here is to hoping this next year will be even more kick ass than the last!

Kisses,

Miss Noel

A sonnet

Recently a submissive wrote me a sonnet – which I found vastly amusing. As it is (belated) Valentines and all, I thought I share it here.

Enjoy.

Kisses,

Noel

Leeds me by the leash, down the hall, I behave.
Physically stronger, still chained I am.
Her beauty the chain that enslaves
My heart in my throat, her thoughts, my head.
Giving her my soul, a pact with dread?
No matter, do as fallen angel has said!
Pain! My new reward, pain very untoward.
She gives to me a suffering pleasure.
Pushing me to take more ever forward.
Her skill without measure her eyes, treasure.
Low she takes me, my face a painful scowl.
Dragons tail set upon me, I won’t fail.
Her fallen angel skills taken over thou.
Fallen Angel is control of me now!

Good reads?

So I’ve been searching out some new reading material to entertain myself with and thought I’d share of few of the noteworthy options I’ve come across:

I thought this looked interesting. I find the psychology of power exchange fascinating. That, and I’m always amused by listening to peoples stutter out justifications for simply doing what turns them on. Really, do you need any other reason?

This looked good as well. Anything that promotes chastity and denial is worth my time and attention

And I know a few of you out there that could benefit from this. I certainly would like to check it out.

Kisses,

Miss Noel

Just a little kinky funny

"It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas…"

….Actually, it’s not. Being originally from Michigan I’m used to hailing the holiday season in with about 5 feet of snow. The recent cold, but rainy, weather has seriously thrown me for a loop.

Never the less, I’ve been cheering myself up by preparing for Christmas. Miss Audrie and I have decked out the apartment and I only just finished wrapping all the gifts I purchased. I absolutely adore Christmas shopping and I had a blast trying to find the perfect gift for everyone this year.

I’ve been getting all kinds of e-mails inquiring about what I’d like for Christmas this year (and no, I haven’t been a good girl, but I know that’s what all of you like best about me) and to answer the question I say; surprise me. I just love surprises…

For those of you who aren’t as creative you can check out my amazon wish list and gift cards (Express, Victoria Secret, Sephora) are always appreciated.

Kisses,

Miss Noel

The new man in my life

Yes, that’s right, I have a new addition to my household.

He’s absolutely GORGEOUS- blonde haired and blue eyed (just like yours truly). I’ll admit, he has a bit of an attitude. He seems to be under the impression that he is the one in charge (we’ll see how long that lasts). He’s very bright and extremely curious. The lucky/handsome devil sleeps curled up next to me every night….

Since I know you’re all either weeping in despair or steaming with enraged jealousy, I thought I’d include a little photo of him….

His name is Hercules and I intend to spoil him rotten

Kisses,

Noel

Vintage Porn

While surfing around online, I happened across this:

http://www.vintagespank.com/

Isn’t it fantastic? I love the mix of artistry and vulgarity…

Kisses,

Miss Noel

A Gift

Recently, a very devoted pet of mine decided to make me a little present. I was so amused by his efforts, I thought I would share;

Isn’t that adorable?

Kisses,

Miss Noel

Good Reads

In light of my newly discovered chastity fetish, Ive been doing quite a bit of research on the technical aspects. There is a wealth of information out there, but two particular items caught my eye:

http://www.malechastitylifestyle.com/male-chastity-guide/

and

http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Male-Chastity/Lucy-Fairbourne/e/9781905605149

Recommendations are always welcome…

Kisses,

Miss Noel