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Pretty little marks

Posted on Jul 16, 2013 in Blog

I like them. I like them a lot.

But before we get to far into my enjoyment of them, lets establish what it is exactly that I’m taking about.

When I say markings, I mean the bruises, welts, rope burn, love bites, even broken skin, that is left behind after a round of good, hard play. The session usually has to be pretty intense in order to leave it’s evidence on flesh, but let’s remember that everyone marks differently. What might leave behind a giant bruise on one person might feel like a light tap to another.

People tend to have very visceral reactions when it comes to the topic of being marked. Some people truly enjoy earning them, taking serious amounts of pain in order to flaunt their marks as a sort of badge of honor. Others are absolutely disgusted by the idea of being marked, and often times list it as a hard limit.

Personally, I find them to be beautiful reminders of the pleasurable (and sometimes harsh) time you’ve spent in my care. I am a sadist, and I do get a monumental amount of joy out of inflicting the pain itself. However, knowing that I’m sending you home with a sore ass or aching balls brings a smile to my face. Just imagine, I’ve spent a couple hours toying with your nipple, leaving them tender and puffy. They’ll probably be a little sensitive for the next couple of days and every time you pull on your shirt, take a shower or brush your chest up against someone, you get a nice little twinge and think about all of the wicked things I did to you. It will keep you mind of me, which is exactly how I like it.

As a bottom, I don’t mind marks – I don’t feel particularly intense about them either way. Unfortunately, as a fetish model and video performer, it can be something of a difficulty. After all, it’s a bit hard to produce an ass fetish clip with bright purple spots peeking out from behind my thong 🙂 Nevertheless, I used to really enjoy the little painful twinges that came after some hardcore corporal play – so I can certainly sympathize with all my “victims”.

For those of you who are like me and enjoy heavy pain play and can’t have marks, or simply mark easily, here are a few tips to treat and prevent marking:

– Moisturize! The dyer your skin, the easier it will break. Lotion yourself thoroughly at least once a day (several times if it’s particularly dry weather).

– Drink lots of water. Staying hydrated will keep your skin healthy and allow it to retain more moisture.

– Make sure you have a thorough warm up. The more time you spend prepping your flesh to take pain, the more pain it can actually endure.

– Take Bromelain! Bromelain is an extract derived from the stems of pineapples. You can pick it up in pill form (you can also get it as a chewable tablet) from any local pharmacy. It contains a type of enzyme that causes you to process protein more effectively, which will allow you to heal more quickly.

– If you are already marked, stop by any CVS/Walgreens/Rite Aid or the like and pick up a bottle of arnica gel. It will make your bruises heal twice as fast and leave your skin soft and hydrated.

Kisses,

Noel

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Video: Taking your anal cherry

Posted on Jul 16, 2013 in Blog

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Keywords: Anal Play, Strap-on, Role Reversal, Femdom POV, Tease and Denial, Light Humiliation, Toys

You are my boyfriend and we’ve always been rather adventurous in the bedroom but there’s one thing I’ve always wanted to try that we just haven’t gotten around to yet. You know what I’m talking about, don’t you, honey? I want to take your virgin ass. I’ve even bought some special toys to loosen you up before reaming you out with my nice, big strap-on! I know it’s a little scary, and it will probably hurt a little bit too, but I know you want to make me happy. Knowing what a little slut you are, I’m sure it won’t be long before you’re begging for my cock. Now, bend over boy, it’s time for me to pop your anal cherry!

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Video: Cum for the Assassin

Posted on Jul 15, 2013 in Blog

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Keywords: Femdom POV, Tease and Denial, JOI, Ass Worship, Face Sitting, Knife Play, Role Play, Femme Fatale, Assassin, Castration Fantasy, Forced Orgasms

You wake up restrained in a dark, damp, dungeon totally unaware of where you are, or how you got there. Then, you see me – beautiful, curvy, blonde, dressed in sexy black lace and shiny red lipstick. I tell you I’ve been hired by your wife to get rid of you. You see, she found out about your plethora of indiscretions and decided a little revenge was in order. You beg me to release you, tell me that it isn’t true. I’m in a generous mood, so I decide to give you a chance – a little test as to your loyalty to your wife. I use my sexy body as a weapon, teasing you, tormenting you, making your dick ache. If you manage to keep yourself from cumming, I’ll free you. However, if you reach orgasm, it’s the last one you’ll ever have….This is a seriously hot T&D clip with a long, slow JOI. Think you can resist me, little man? Let’s find out!

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On the subject of Financial Domination

Posted on Jul 12, 2013 in Blog

Financial domination, or “findom” as it’s largely known within the community, seems to be more popular than ever these days. Most of the professional Dommes and switches I come across engage in some form of financial domination on a regular basis. Generally, I find that this kind of control falls into one of two categories (keep in mind, I said generally – as with all things kink, the variations are vast).

Most typically, it involves a female (usually an extraordinarily pretty one) extorting money from a male submissive. This can happen in a lot of different ways. For instance, a man might wish to show his adoration and appreciation for the woman in question, and thus offer up various gifts or tokens of his affection. He might simply give her the money in tributes, gift cards or (my favorite) cold, hard cash. He might be required to hand over his credit card while the Domme goes on a shopping spree. I’ve even heard of more practical arrangements in which the slave is responsible for handling the woman’s bills, utilities, rent payments and what not. This might be intrinsic to the dynamic (meaning, it may be part of the males submission to the woman) or something he does to show her his gratitude for her time, attention and guidance.

Another, more rare form of financial domination involves the submissive handing over all of his earning to the Domme, allowing her to handle his expenses and dish out an occasional allowance to him (usually keeping the rest for herself). In this case, the slave would have absolutely no control over his own finances, allowing his Mistress to dominate every facet of his life. Bills would be paid with his money, but not by him and he would be required to ask permission from the Domme for each and every expenditure. Can you imagine calling your Mistress and politely asking it was alright to go out have a couple drinks with your friends, having to log every penny and report back to her in turn? What if she said no? I imagine this would keep a man very, very obedient.

Findom ranges from extreme and humiliating to sweet and playful. The motivations as to why someone would want to submit in this fashion are many, but certainly understandable. After all, money makes our world go round. What better way to offer up your submission and obedience to a person that to sacrifice what you work so very hard to achieve. While the act of being “used” for cash can be humiliating, it can always be a very intimate form of control.

Where do I fall in all of this? Good question.

I don’t necessarily consider myself a “FinDomme”.  Meaning, what draws me to BDSM isn’t that particular activity, but I can certainly appreciate it and do engage in financial domination during sessions (both online and in person). As a girl, I love getting presents. Opening my mail and finding pretty little brown boxes with yummy little trinkets inside makes my day and certainly puts a smile on my face – but perhaps not for the reasons you think. While I love “stuff” (name one female alive who doesn’t enjoy a sexy pair of heels or designer jeans and I’ll show you a liar), what I love more is your appreciation and adoration. Getting gifts makes me happy but knowing you felt compelled to submit to me in such a way makes me even happier. That doesn’t mean I won’t rake you over the coals if that’s your fantasy, but watching you squirm happily/nervously while I do it is what really fills me with delight.

Kisses,

Noel

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This weeks loot

Posted on Jul 8, 2013 in Blog, Slaves & Sluts

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I received some lovely gifts from my boys this week:

My newest chastity slave sent me a sterling silver key necklace. A very appropriate gift for a boys whose package is currently under my lock and key don’t you think?

Two pairs of pantyhose from my ‘hose loving addict. For those of you who don’t know, I have a huge leg wear fetish. Any sort of leggings, stockings or pantyhose are much appreciated. If you’re   lucky, I might even send you a photo of my luscious legs and ass encased in the silky fabric.

A beautiful, soft scarf from a mystery fan. If you sent this, do let me know – good boys deserve rewards 😉

Thank you to all the boys who sent me presents. Getting gifts makes me smile and when your Princess is happy, good things happen!

Kisses,

Noel

 

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My insight on “breaking” boys

Posted on Jul 3, 2013 in BDSM & Fetish, Blog

Recently, over a bottle of wine and some fantastic haute cuisine, I had a very interesting chat with a few of my girlfriends. The topic of conversation concerned the best way to “break” a boy in.

Before the lot of you get all up in arms, picturing naughty slave beaten to a pulp and crawling across the dungeon floor, allow me to clarify; when I say break, I don’t mean it any physical sense. I mean, how to I slip in a boys head and continually seduce him into doing the things I want him to do (which, often enough, are usually things he wants to do – he just needs to be “forced” into doing them).

So that had the wheels in my pretty little head a-spinning. How do I do it?

Anyone who knows me (or, at least knows about my kinky proclivities) understands that I have a sadistic streak a mile wide. I regularly exercise pain play on boys who are all too willing to suffer for me.  Any woman can cause a boy pain. It’s not like it’s difficult – just wrap your pretty hand around a full set of balls and squeeze. At that point, they really will do almost anything to make you happy 🙂 My sadism, however, tends to be more wrapped up in sensation play than any form of training. Watching you whimper, watching your pupils dilate in fear makes me happy, and I do it because it thrills me (and the boy in question). So for me, when it comes to breaking boys, pain doesn’t really enter the equation.

Another option revolves around the exploitation of fetishes. Most submissive men come with one or two. Once I know what they are, it’s very easy to get a boy to dance for me. For example, if I know a boy has a foot fetish, I might tease him by wearing things that accentuate my feet and legs. Make him sit still while I slowly strip off my stockings and dangle my shoes from my toes. Imagine how desperate he would be to kiss my pretty soles by then, and what he might be willing to do in order to earn that pleasure.

Of course, not all men have fetishes. What do you do then?

Well, that brings us to my default.

I’ve always thought the best way to control a man, and “break him in, was through pleasure. Once you’ve got control of the dick, you’ve got control over everything else. Really, all it takes is a little orgasm denial and teasing. After a few days of halted release and daily edgings, a boy will be ready to do absolutely anything for me. This is one of the reasons I’m so fond of chastity and why T&D (that’s tease and denial) is one of my favorite games during a session. For men, it’s all about the orgasm and if you can keep him on edge, you’ve got him hooked.

And I’m very, very good and keeping boys on the edge 🙂

Kisses,

Noel

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