BDSM & Fetish

Return To NiteFlirt

Posted on Jun 6, 2014 in BDSM & Fetish, Slaves & Sluts

It’s your lucky day, boys! I am announcing my return to NiteFlirt. I will be available for phone sessions throughout the week and weekends going forward. I will be posting an official schedule once I’ve managed to hammer one out. In the meantime, I suggest you give me a call and indulge in some wicked play time. I’m sure you’ve always dreamed of hearing my seductive voice lure you into submission and they has finally arrived to make that a reality.

You can see my listings here: http://www.niteflirt.com/users/Noel+Knight#

I look forward to toying with you…

Kisses,

Noel

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Styles Of Submission

Posted on Sep 4, 2013 in BDSM & Fetish, Blog, Slaves & Sluts

While I am generally not a big fan of labels, I recently was involved in a conversation about different styles of submission. So often I get people who message me saying “I am a sissy slut” or “I want to be your slave”. This got me thinking about what those things actually mean, and how people manifest their submissive identities during the course of a session (or, in some cases, as a lifestyle).

I’ve broken it down in a list, of sorts. Keep in mind; this is not a complete list, only some of the most common submissive roles I’ve come across.

The Brat is someone who likes to be “forced” into doing things. They generally crave punishment and thus act out (being mouthing, committing some evil sin, breaking a rule) in order to procure correction. This can be done in real play or in a role-play scenario.

The Service Slave is just what the same implies; someone who enjoys being of service. They want to be useful to their dominant and will work to make the said dominant’s life easier. They generally enjoy being given domestic tasks (cleaning, cooking and what not).

The Play Bottom is a person who will submit during the course of a scene but is otherwise independent and uninterested in a continued power dynamic.

The Goddess Worshiper is a male whose focus is very much on the Domme, not so much a service sphere, but in being controlled by her sexually. This can be done over the space of a specific scene or in a more intense duration.

The Pet is someone who wants to be treated as one might a cat or dog. They wish to be taken care of, and generally want to exist only to amuse and be “petted” by their owner.

The Pain Toy is generally a masochist who wants to be tortured and suffer for a cruel and unsympathetic dominant. Most pain toys tend to fixate of a particular kind of punishment (whipping or CBT for example).

The Humiliation Junkie may or many no be interested in typical BDSM activities, but for the most part craves degradation. They want to be laughed at, poked at, and made to feel embarrassed by either completing some ridiculous task or, in some cases, simply for being the pervert they are.

The Sissy Slut is a male submissive who wants to be dressed and taught to act like a female. This may be done for humiliation purposes, or simply because the sub really wants to be “one of the girls”

Keep in mind that all of these roles are not mutually exclusive. You can be just one or you can be all of them, depending on the time, situation and person you are playing with. As with all things BDSM, it’s never really black or white, but more of a gradient scale. It’s also important to remember that one role is not necessarily better than another. They can all be fun within their own context. The point is to embrace whatever style you feel pulled to during the course of your scene, identify what you want, and have fun with it!

Kisses,

Miss Noel

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FemDom Fiction

Posted on Aug 14, 2013 in BDSM & Fetish, Blog

Guess what, boys? It’s confession time and I have a very dirty little secret to tell you…

Actually, it’s not all that dirty and it certainly won’t be a secret for long.

Yours truly is a rather accomplished writer and I’ve started a new project plotting out some FemDom fiction. I’ve several pieces already written and even more plot lines waiting to be filled out. I know all of you fellow perverts would love to read about all the filthy, evil machinations that go on inside my head and these stories will incorporate all of my favorite ways to tease and torture. I am thrilled with the way they’ve turned out so far and I can’t wait to share them with world.

I am, however, missing one very important piece to this puzzle. While I may be kick-ass author, I am in no way qualified (nor do I have the time) to operate as an editor. That means I am searching for a boy (or girl) with literary experience to do so for me. If you would like to apply for this position you must:

1. Have experience editing, publishing or writing literature. It is imperative that you be able to correct any spelling, grammar or formatting errors with ease.

2. Be dependable. I can’t be waiting weeks or months to have the work returned to me (these stories are 10,000 words or less, so that shouldn’t be a major issue).

3. Understand that you are doing this in service to me in return for my attention and the pleasure of submission.

If you meet all of this criteria, you may send me an e-mail with your credentials: noel@noelknight.com

I look forward to hearing from you!

Kisses,

Noel

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Anal Etiquette

Posted on Jul 23, 2013 in BDSM & Fetish, Blog

Anal play is one of the most common activities experimented with in BDSM play. While I’m thrilled that so many boys are willing to take it up the ass these days, there are some simple and finite rules to making an enjoyable anal play session for both you and your partner. Here are some of my recommendation (or demands, if you prefer):

1. Be clean. Yes, this means you’ll be required to take an enema or two. Personally, I enjoy making the enema part of the play (watching you squirm while your tummy is filled the to brim with warm soapy water only reinforces who is really in control), but I understand that some boys find it embarrassing to do this in front of their playmate. You can always  to procure a few enemas (you can pick them up from any local pharmacy) and give them to yourself at home right before your play date. I usually recommend two to really get yourself squeaky clean.

2. Stretch your little hole. If you really, really love anal play, I suggest you pick up a few toys of your own and wear them for a few hours a couple time of week. This will keep your bottom loose and ready for your partner to rape and pillage.

3. Bigger is not necessarily better. If you aren’t accustomed to anal play and can’t spend much time stretching yourself out, then you’ll have to start slow. It may take some time to work you up to taking large dildos or a strap-on. A tiny little butt plug may feel huge to the untested bottom. You don’t need a gargantuan toy to make it pleasurable and intense.

4. Go slow. While your fantasy may be getting fucked like a little whore by a gaggle of Dommes, that’s not something you’ll really enjoy in reality unless you’ve been properly prepared. It make take anywhere from a couple hours to a couple days to get you ready for a real, hard fucking. Don’t worry, take your time - You’ll get there ;)

5. Experiment with positions. During strap-on play you want the position to be comfortable not just for you, but also for your partner. Some positions might feel better than others. Play around and see what feels best for you.

6.  Communicate. With all things BDSM, communication is key. As good as a Domme may be, she’s not a mind reader- so tell her how it feels! Tell her what you like, what hurts, what you want more or less of continuously.

Kisses,

Noel

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My insight on “breaking” boys

Posted on Jul 3, 2013 in BDSM & Fetish, Blog

Recently, over a bottle of wine and some fantastic haute cuisine, I had a very interesting chat with a few of my girlfriends. The topic of conversation concerned the best way to “break” a boy in.

Before the lot of you get all up in arms, picturing naughty slave beaten to a pulp and crawling across the dungeon floor, allow me to clarify; when I say break, I don’t mean it any physical sense. I mean, how to I slip in a boys head and continually seduce him into doing the things I want him to do (which, often enough, are usually things he wants to do - he just needs to be “forced” into doing them).

So that had the wheels in my pretty little head a-spinning. How do I do it?

Anyone who knows me (or, at least knows about my kinky proclivities) understands that I have a sadistic streak a mile wide. I regularly exercise pain play on boys who are all too willing to suffer for me.  Any woman can cause a boy pain. It’s not like it’s difficult – just wrap your pretty hand around a full set of balls and squeeze. At that point, they really will do almost anything to make you happy :) My sadism, however, tends to be more wrapped up in sensation play than any form of training. Watching you whimper, watching your pupils dilate in fear makes me happy, and I do it because it thrills me (and the boy in question). So for me, when it comes to breaking boys, pain doesn’t really enter the equation.

Another option revolves around the exploitation of fetishes. Most submissive men come with one or two. Once I know what they are, it’s very easy to get a boy to dance for me. For example, if I know a boy has a foot fetish, I might tease him by wearing things that accentuate my feet and legs. Make him sit still while I slowly strip off my stockings and dangle my shoes from my toes. Imagine how desperate he would be to kiss my pretty soles by then, and what he might be willing to do in order to earn that pleasure.

Of course, not all men have fetishes. What do you do then?

Well, that brings us to my default.

I’ve always thought the best way to control a man, and “break him in, was through pleasure. Once you’ve got control of the dick, you’ve got control over everything else. Really, all it takes is a little orgasm denial and teasing. After a few days of halted release and daily edgings, a boy will be ready to do absolutely anything for me. This is one of the reasons I’m so fond of chastity and why T&D (that’s tease and denial) is one of my favorite games during a session. For men, it’s all about the orgasm and if you can keep him on edge, you’ve got him hooked.

And I’m very, very good and keeping boys on the edge :)

Kisses,

Noel

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Long Distance Keyholding

Posted on Jun 30, 2013 in BDSM & Fetish, Blog, Slaves & Sluts

As I’m sure many of you may be aware, chastity is a fetish very near and dear to my heart. I consider it to be something of a specialty of mine. Nothing makes me happier than knowing that you’re locked up securely inside a tight little cock cage while I am free to get all the pleasure I want (and deserve). Imagine that evil little “snick” as the lock closes, trapping you inside a plastic tube. Imagine watching me place the key around my neck. Imagine being tied up, having me tease you through that wicked cock cage, knowing all the while that I’m not going to let you out (no matter how hard you beg for release). More than just the physical impact, I find that chastity is a very intimate and emotional form type of play to engage in for submissives’. It’s not uncommon to experience mood swings while under than kind of control, and it can certainly make you feel vulnerable and exposed.

For these reasons, chastity is usually this is something that works best in person. However, lately, I’ve had more and more people request “distance keyholding” arrangements.

How does that work?

It’s fairly simple (but not easy -there’s a difference).

With long distance chastity, I prefer to use the plastic locks with the unique serial numbers printed on them. They seem really easy to cheat your way out of right? Not if you obey my rules. I insist that boys under my lock and key keep a camera on them at all times (usually a camera phone will do) and I require photos taken morning and night to ensure that the lock is in place. More than that, I may, at any time, send a message requesting a photo of them in their belt immediately (can you imagine being at work and getting a message like that from me? You’d have to sneak off to the bathroom, strip down and hope to God that you weren’t discovered).

I also insist my chastity slave keeps a daily journal or log of their experiences and thoughts while wearing the belt. I want to know what’s going on inside your perverted little mind, and have found that this seems to be the most efficient way of keep tabs on things. I also require at least one weekly cam session (during which I review behavior, implement punishments, or dole out rewards, depending).

Of course, it doesn’t end there; it wouldn’t be any fun if I didn’t test you a bit, would it?

My favorite part of this arrangement comes in the form of mean, evil, teasing little assignments. I send them at random, without warning and with a very strict deadline. The goal of these assignments, of course, is to force a boy outside of his comfort zone and test his limits. I’ve yet to have a boy unable to rise to the occasion – after all, if you had gone 8 weeks without an orgasm, wouldn’t you just about do anything to get one?

Food for thought…

Kisses,

Noel

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