My Assessment of Spanking

Posted on Jun 24, 2013 in BDSM & Fetish, Blog, Photos

Ah, Spanking – my first love!

As a child, I remember being drawn to movies that had abbreviated spanking and discipline scenes in them (specially old black and white films from the 30’s and 40’s). Of course, these scenes were always very short, never more than a couple seconds and contained mostly implied content. I recall, however, being enthralled by these scenarios. I wanted to know more – what happened afterwards? Did it hurt? Did he/she cry? As I got older (and armed with the internet at my disposal) I started researching, reading everything I could get my hands on – from instruction guides, to first hand accounts, even erotica. It wasn’t long before I asked a girlfriend of mine ( yes, that’s girlfriend as in romantic interest) to spank me. I liked it! A lot. Soon after, I was wanting to return the favor, and found that had a sincere fetish for erotic discipline. Spanking, in many ways, was what first introduced me to the BDSM lifestyle. It was the first little blip on my kinky radar and it’s been a slipper slope ever since.


Me, getting spanked by Princess Donna during a shoot

Funnily enough, I’m not alone in this fact. Spanking seems to be something of a “gateway” activity for many people involved in S&M. I would even go so far as to say that it’s becoming mainstream. Mention spanking in a crowd and most of the individuals present will laugh it off, and few might even admit that they’ve tried it (or that they’ve always wanted to). There are references to spanking all over the web, in television shows and films, even pop culture seems to have taken a shine the idea of domestic discipline. The fact is, the world is full of spankos and finally, it’s becoming something socially acceptable. Now, if only I could some how make they happen with needles and caning….


Yours truly taking Audie Sinclair in hand during a video shoot

Today, spanking remains one of my favorite activities and one that I often utilize during in-person sessions. I like it because it can be intense and painful, soft and sensual, humiliating and cruel; there is no limit to the ways in which I can take a boy (or girl) in hand. It fits seamlessly into most role-plays (who wants to be my unruly school boy or disobedient assistant?) and can happen in any time, in any setting. I can use toys, or just my hand. I can scold and lecture you during your punishment, or I can tease you, arouse you until your begging me to spank you even harder. Quite frankly, having a squirming body over my lap while I administer a few good, stinging slaps fills me with joy. Watching the skin turn pink and warm makes me smile and hearing those adorable little whimpers and they try to struggle is one of my biggest hot buttons. Want to turn me on? Bend over and ask me, very sweetly, for a spanking…


Bet you wish you were here

Well, now that I’m all hot and botherd, who is going to get their ass over to my dungeon so that I can make them squeal? 😉