Long Distance Keyholding

Posted on Jun 30, 2013 in BDSM & Fetish, Blog, Slaves & Sluts

As I’m sure many of you may be aware, chastity is a fetish very near and dear to my heart. I consider it to be something of a specialty of mine. Nothing makes me happier than knowing that you’re locked up securely inside a tight little cock cage while I am free to get all the pleasure I want (and deserve). Imagine that evil little “snick” as the lock closes, trapping you inside a plastic tube. Imagine watching me place the key around my neck. Imagine being tied up, having me tease you through that wicked cock cage, knowing all the while that I’m not going to let you out (no matter how hard you beg for release). More than just the physical impact, I find that chastity is a very intimate and emotional form type of play to engage in for submissives’. It’s not uncommon to experience mood swings while under than kind of control, and it can certainly make you feel vulnerable and exposed.

For these reasons, chastity is usually this is something that works best in person. However, lately, I’ve had more and more people request “distance keyholding” arrangements.

How does that work?

It’s fairly simple (but not easy -there’s a difference).

With long distance chastity, I prefer to use the plastic locks with the unique serial numbers printed on them. They seem really easy to cheat your way out of right? Not if you obey my rules. I insist that boys under my lock and key keep a camera on them at all times (usually a camera phone will do) and I require photos taken morning and night to ensure that the lock is in place. More than that, I may, at any time, send a message requesting a photo of them in their belt immediately (can you imagine being at work and getting a message like that from me? You’d have to sneak off to the bathroom, strip down and hope to God that you weren’t discovered).

I also insist my chastity slave keeps a daily journal or log of their experiences and thoughts while wearing the belt. I want to know what’s going on inside your perverted little mind, and have found that this seems to be the most efficient way of keep tabs on things. I also require at least one weekly cam session (during which I review behavior, implement punishments, or dole out rewards, depending).

Of course, it doesn’t end there; it wouldn’t be any fun if I didn’t test you a bit, would it?

My favorite part of this arrangement comes in the form of mean, evil, teasing little assignments. I send them at random, without warning and with a very strict deadline. The goal of these assignments, of course, is to force a boy outside of his comfort zone and test his limits. I’ve yet to have a boy unable to rise to the occasion – after all, if you had gone 8 weeks without an orgasm, wouldn’t you just about do anything to get one?

Food for thought…

Kisses,

Noel